Tick Tock (cander)

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Lives Connect through Friendship

Social media, especially Facebook, has changed the scope of friendship. 

However, I do not believe that the core definition of friend will never change.

My life has been totally enriched because of my friends. I am blessed with friends from childhood to Facebook friends newly acquainted. 

What is Really in My Lungs?

I'm back at MD Anderson to have a biopsy of the tumors in my lungs.  My oncologist isn't totally convinced the tumors are cancer.  Wow...how great would that be!  To find out for sure, I will have  a bronchoscopy.  Being curious about how a bronchoscopy is performed, I found a video online.  Oh my goodness!!!  They will run a tube up my nose, down my throat, and into my lungs.  Sounds fun right??  Check back later this week and I will share the full details of the experience.

Crazy Cast of Characters

My Memphis friends are a cast of characters ready for reality show TV…..well maybe we were reality show material back in the day….cancer, kids, and life had matured us past all that….I thought until I got breast cancer……  They were determined that I would not face any critical moments alone.  There were two crazy girlfriends that always provided a way to see the humor in even the scariest things.  Get ready to laugh as I share just two of the more notable memories I have of Janis & Renee'.

Bad Hair Day

CANCER - The "C" Word

Cancer is a much hated word.  

Seeking ways to exchange the bad C word with cool C words became part of my way to chip away the bad of the battle and replace it with words like Comedy, Chicken, Compassion, and Chardonnay. 

Thanks to a multitude of people who make up my story’s cast of characters, my battle became more like a cartoon in no time.   A daily dose of laughter became a cure all medicine for my soul. 

The next few blogs will be story telling dedicated to the need for women to have Cool &/or Crazy friends during any life battle real or imagined.

Real Life Living with Stage IV Breast Cancer

This week was raw and real.  I shared a daily journal of my journey to MDA. 

Check in frequently for blog updates on what I expect will be a week full of medical information, splashes of humor, a squidge of emotion and acres of fun.

No, I am not mixing up a Halloween brew.

I am inviting you to join me on my roller coaster life for one week. You’ll enjoy the ride, and it won’t be boring.

Sunday, October 21

What Can I Do to Help?

At a time of crisis, friends, family, and co-workers ask, "What can I do to help?" The human spirit wants to reach out and lift up a person in need.  People want to do something to make it better.

True Grit Comes in PINK!

Paint the Park Pink & Shoe Away Cancer recently provided me the privilege of being a survivor representative at these two Susan G. Komen for the Cure – Ozark events.  I was honored to be asked to serve but even more honored to stand alongside so many other women who have fought this deadly disease. 

If you know me, I am quite the talker!  I can hear my friends laughing hilariously right now.  However, believe it or not, I am always observing body language even more than you know.  And yes, I am guilty of eavesdropping.  At these two events, here is what I observed:

Shoe Sale Sadness

Mortality reality rings loud and clear when you least expect it. 

Moments that grab our attention can be a wake-up call. I call them life’s alarm clock.  Tick Tock.

Second Opinions are Good.

Divine Timing + New Pathology Report = HOPE

The pathology report from Fort Smith said the new breast cancer tumors had mutated from my original breast cancer.  It was now triple negative – no receptors.  Tumors where found in my lungs and bones.  On June 29th, my oncologist told me it was treatable but not curable.  I wanted a second opinion.

Prayer Warriors Galore!

 

When times are tough and we don’t have the capacity to fix things ourselves, most people turn to God for help.  I am no different.  From the time I felt like the news of my cancer reoccurrence was intimate, I prayed for His will to be done.  It isn’t God’s will for me to have cancer but I do believe He has a purpose for allowing me to champion this cancer challenge.....again.  

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